Utterly tired is how I am, but I want to stay awake to see tonight's lunar eclipse. I like that you don't have to make special glasses to see it, nor have your eyeballs burned out. So while I wait I thought I'd point you guys to some new sites I've linked to on my site for your masturbatory pleasures:
Ass and Pussy - Yep, there is no doubt what you will find here. I wonder if there is a "Cock and Balls?"
His Kitten - another submissive female blog
Puppygrrl - we're all a bunch of animals, aren't we?
Slave Lydia's Blog with my new favorite blog name Blog and Chains
Pudcat BDSM which is a blog feed aggregator? alligator? aggrevator?
You will see a little box on the right with six pictures that will link you other blogs.
Well that sucked up about 10 minutes, I guess I'll go look at some of these dirty pictures and stuff....
Wednesday
Waiting For The Moon
Sunday
Better Late Than Never-Sugasm #117
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #118? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
A Fable
“They start touching her, gingerly at first, wondering what magic is in her.”
“You naughty, naughty, NAUGHTY monkeys!”
Sexy Is In Your Mind
“Sexy is an attitude and really all in your mind.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Chickipedia
Editor’s Choice
Take a walk on the wild side.
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
BDSM & Fetish
Anniversary Bondage
Art Show Maintenance Spanking part 1
The Joy of Assymetry
Let me talk to you about Ms Danger
A Masochist Afraid of a Leg Wax?
Princess in Chains
SoRORIty
Take a walk on the wild side.
Try to be a good boy or you’ll be punished
Wednesday
Get Your Batteries & Lube-It's Sugasm Time !!!
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #114? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
A Different Kind Of Authority For Sex Bloggers
“As we sex workers, sex bloggers, and adult business folks swim in our ponds or spin in our micro universes & connect with others, we continue to build authority.”
Of sex and strippers
“At one point she was straddling Girlfriend’s right leg, grinding her thigh against Girlfriend’s clit through her jeans.”
Wink Wink, Nudge Nudge
Her comments were something to the effect of, “No one wanted to see me twirl with tassels ~ on fire or not ~ when some girl was going to sit on stage and insert things into herself.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Kofola
Editor’s Choice
Interview with Paul Festa about circumcision
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Aural Sex. - The Husband
Cock Whore
Decibels
Dreams are funny things
The Erotic Review
I Love A Rainy Night
The night I was initiated on Frat Row
Opera Glasses
Score
Skin, breath, desire, rhythm
Uninvited
Yesterday’s Sweet Blowjob
Sex Work
Catalina loves Giving Spankings
NSFW Pics & Videos
Mizuki Horii
Andie Valentino (Twistys)
Half-Nekkid Thursday: View from MY Back Row
Mindy Main Sexy and Topless
A Very Shibari New Year From Marky D. Sade
Sex Advice
13 Ways To Use What You Have To Build Intimacy
Celebrate 2008: The Year of the Pussy!
Just Seeing My Girlfriend Turns Me On! Is This Normal?!
Resolve to Improve Your Sex Life in 2008
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
2007 Wanking Totals
Discovering the Art of Masturbation
Hair-B-Gone
I fucked this guy once …without dirty talk!?!
Taking One For the Team
Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
The Hello Kitty Vibrator - Battery-Powered Evil!!!
Panties Second Only To Auto Industry
Real Doll Rentals
Working Sex: Sex Workers Write About a Changing Industry
BDSM & Fetish
All Tied Up and No Where To Go
Am I A Masochist?
Daddy Play
The Descent Begins
More piss slut practice
Rough Fuck
A Seven Orgasm Day
Two-thirds
Who knew Uncle Sam was kinky?
(apologies, I honestly forgot where I found this picture)
Sunday
Thursday
Nice Review
One of my many obsessions is checking my site stats. I don't look at the numbers as much as what other sites have referred visitors to this blog. Anyway, a site I added to my side bar awhile back has put up a very nice and honest review of my blog.
One thing both reviewers did note that I did have a lot of crap on my side bar and advertisements. True. Some are required reciprocal links to various directories, others yes, are advertisements. I do change them up quite a bit and I'm experimenting. Mostly at this point, just to get the hang of being an adult webmaster. There is a lot to learn. I've made less than $4! So obviously I'm not in this for the money. In fact, most companies won't even pay out until you make at least 50 bucks.
Anyway, despite all that they enjoyed the content and that is what this blog is truly about. This month I know has been slow for stuff about myself and Teacher. We haven't had a whole hell of a lot of time together to play, but as we discussed this evening, we'll be back to our fun and games soon enough.
So check out "The Naughty Guide" for not only the review of Sub Nouveau, but other sexy sites! If you're a blogger, definitely submit your blog.
OK You Doms, Time To Step Up To the Plate
Another BDSM blog, a popular one at that, has bit the dust "Confessions of An English Gentleman." For most of the details, you can check out Persephone's blog. I didn't read his blog as often as the others on my blog roll, but Persephone's recent posts recently gave me reason to check out "Roper's" blog more often.
The demise of this blog leaves yet even more of a gap in the world of Dom blogging. Dominant men that is. I can't speak of the Femdom blogs, as to be honest I haven't really made a concerted effort to read any, not for any particular reason other than perhaps I have no desire to be topped by a woman, though I've fantasized about topping one myself. [ED: I actually realized that I was foolish not reading Femdom blogs, and I've just updated my blogroll to
include some Femdom blogs]
So I would like to encourage any of you lurkers out there who might just happen to be Doms ("Teacher" will have some guest posts on here soon) to start up your own blogs. As much as I love reading the trials and tribulations of my sub pals, I very much enjoy getting a Dom's perspective.
If you are a Dom who blogs and you're not on my blogroll, drop me a line and perhaps we'll do a link trade. Perhaps. I've gotten some bizzaro spam blog requests. For some reason I think there are a lot more Dom bloggers out there than any of us realize. One thing about blogging, no matter what subject, if you want readers you truly have to make an effort beyond quality content. Most of them are easy-- getting to know your fellow bloggers, commenting, getting the word out in whatever web community to which you belong. Some do take a bit more of
an effort, submitting your site to various engines, toplists, directories, etc.
Bottom line is blog our kinky brothers, blog!
My Fellow Smut Bloggers
A busy schedule, limited Internet access at work, and some hardcore cleaning has thrown this info junkie's reading schedule entirely off. So the last couple of night's I've been catching up on all my BDSM, spanko and sex blogs and I'm sad to report that a black cloud has been hovering over some of my favorite writers.
One has had major health issues, one has been deciding if she should continue, and one has been completely erased. A large amount have not been updated, that of course is not unusual. Even here I felt a bit of self-imposed pressure to keep up my pace, some of my stats fell and I took it personally. I'm thinking people don't jerk off in the winter!
So my fellow bloggers, what can I say, for all our juicy tales our blogs are for the most part diaries, and well life happens. For those who haven't posted, please come back, even once in awhile. The other people who are having it rough, I have already shared my concern.
For those who are reading, you may not be aware, but there are a handful of us who have just by common interest read one another's blogs (see my blogroll), shared technical support, traffic, and even just friendly advice.
Just as I told my lurkers a post ago, you bloggers are loved. During this interesting time in my life where I am going through the beginnings of my life as a sub you've all been a great assest to my info arsenal as well as proof that I am not alone in my quest.
Monday
Schweet! Sugasm #102
(Jessica Alba apparently has some sucking skills!)
The best of this week's blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #103? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you're all set.
This Week's Picks
She Told Me
“She told me she had a headache.”
Fantasy: If you can’t stand the heat…
“You set the ice cube down and force my legs apart.”
Sugarbutch Star: Bad Bad Girl
“I brought my lips down on hers hard, crushing, devouring, insistent.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Upskirt Video from V Magazine
Editor's Choice
Blog Action Day: Sexual Activism or Lightning Doesn't Strike Twice
See also: Fleshbot's Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
BDSM & Fetish
My Wife is a Skank! pt2
Peep Show
The piss slit
Significance of a Collar
Under his Thumb (Me, Sub Nouveau)
Sex News & Reviews
Featured Design: Go Ahead and Ask Me
My first speculum
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Capture
Faking It
Geriatric SEX! yeah. Part 2 of an interview with mimi about her (relatively) new relationship
Rant to follow!
Tantra and Kink: Energy Charge
The Grey Area
TMI Tuesday #105 (Dating Edition)
Top Ten Songs to Do It To
What To Do With Cum (Part 2)
Sex Work
Comfort Sex
Cuckold Fantasies and the “N” Word
Sex Work And Religion: Crucifixion
NSFW Pics & Videos
Catalina Loves Bondage and Nikki Nefarious
Cerydwyn (I Shot Myself)
Erotic Art Show: Houdini
Janette - Morning Blue
Jungbauern Calendar 2008
Naughty Nurse
Ron Harris Studio’s Latest Erotic Photo and Video
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Auto-erotic
Behind glass
Christening
Encounter 1, Part II: Disaster Averted
Find ‘em, Fuck ‘em and Flee
Honey I'm home.
How I Love The Fall
I need you, now
My Afternoon with Alejandro
Rubbing one out
Ruf <> Smooth
Sacred & Profane
Sex Tourism
Vignettes of a Cuckoldress
Sugar, Honey, Honey --Sugasm #100
Happy 100th Birthday Sam Sugar, Sugasm Crew & All You Sexy Bloggers!
The best of this week's blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #101? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you're all set.
This Week' Picks
Do you want me…?
“The shiver that runs through you tells me everything I need to know.”
Love that ass (his perspective)
“But as long as we are in here, she submits to my command; to my every whim.”
Hubb and Spoeker
“He was good for show and good in bed, but an asshole in the real world.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
125 Magazine, Alternet and Enviromentally Friendly Porn
Editor's Choice
The very best of Sugasm…. so far
See also: Fleshbot's Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Being Stuck Outside
Dominance, Submission, Humiliation, Control
Miscarriage and Feminine Identity
The next colonel sanders or orville redenbacher
No more pen and sex
Sex on the first date???
What Is Mary Hiding?
Why “Sugasm” Matters
Sex Work
Do you like phone sex?
La Petite Mort
Sex Work And Religion: The Sex Crazed Pagan Cult Fantasy
NSFW Pics & Videos
I could watch her do laundry all day!
Just Teen Site Releases All New Nude Videos
Red Rose
Today’s Special Offer: Fresh Hamburgers
Sex News & Reviews
Belated Happy 2nd Blogiversary to My Bottom Smarts!
Fetish Film - How to Use Sounds (Urethral Sounds)
First Purity Balls, Now Integrity Balls
It’s HERE!!!! Miss Francy’s “Spanking the Male Mind”!
Team Up with the 6th Annual Blogger Boobie-Thon
BDSM & Fetish
Back To School
Catalina loves Chat
Dancing with the Devil, a D/s Relationship
The Dungeon: Sex Camp, Night One
Fuck of a Lifetime
Harder….
Heat
I Got Your Number
Manhandled
Mira
My Wife is a Skank! pt1
A Nawty Story: Diane Phones Home
Objets d’obsession: neck corsets
Our game
Piss Slut
Who is Elise Sutton and why does it matter?
Erotic Writing and Experiences
100 Sexy
An Affair with the Wind
Corseting Mrs. Russian
Burlesque: Home Coming
Gamahuche
I Succumb to Jefferson’s Dastardly Lesbian Plot!
More Than A Breast-Fondle
The Morning Rollover
Party Blowjob - Part 3
Saturday
Certificate of Merit
Wow! I was doing a Technorati search to see who is linking here and apparently I missed Spankhortic's post where not only did he award me this certificate of merit, but also had these kind words:
Secondly a fairly new blog Sub Nouveau. Normally I the difference between BDSMy blogs and Spanko blogs to be that the BDSMyI must say I am very flattered not only as a sub, but as writer! I think that there is no reason to be always be dark, serious, and angry when dicussing BDSM. I think that is why Teacher and I enjoy each other's company, we laugh around and kid often.
blogs are very serious and the Spanko blogs lean towards the humorous side of
fetish, nothing wrong with either of these approaches I like them both. But this
blog has a BDSMy feel combined with a lot of wit and a sense of humour, perhaps
the lady who writes this is some new super BDSM/Spanko hybrid step on the ladder towards the evolution of a higher form of fetishist or perhaps I am just writing rubbish, either way this is a fine blog.
There are those who say that those who are funny often have a dark side to them, and that is definitely the case. Life is not always buttercups and daffodils. I've battled depression for many years, and humor has often kept me from slipping away. Laughing through pain is nothing new to me. This pain I chose through BDSM, though, is a good kind of pain. Not only that, but humor is often reminder not to take yourself so fucking seriously.
My motto has always been "If you can't laugh at yourself, at whom can you laugh?"
Tie me up, spank my ass, fuck me raw but if I queef I'm most certainly going to laugh.
Thursday
Thank You My Dirty Darlings
Puppytales, she's a naughty pet, this is one hot blog. Check it out.
PS. I know the photo really has nothing to do with this post, but I love David LaChapelle's photography & I love Pamela in all her exaggerated femininity. Who wouldn't want a spanking from her?
